For Evidence Of Gaslighting Use ONRECORD
What is gaslighting and what is the evidence of gaslighting that I need? Gaslighting is the action of tricking or controlling someone by making them believe things that are not…
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Are you involved with a narcissist?
Narcissists can seem very charming Narcissists can often be very charismatic, charming and good company, at least to start with. They like to create a flattering image of themselves because…
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I’m suspicious of someone. What should I do?
If you’re suspicious of someone, you need to test your suspicions Feeling something isn’t quite ‘right’ but you can’t figure it out? Know something’s wrong but you need some evidence?…
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Gather evidence to prove or dispel your suspicions
Maybe you thought you were in a stable relationship but then something happened to make you feel suspicious. Maybe your child has started to behave in ways you’ve not seen…
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Gathering Evidence Of Conflict With A Manipulative Ex
The problems caused by a manipulative ex Conflict with an ex is always painful and especially so if you’re fighting over children, but with a manipulative ex it can get…
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The 10 Reasons To Gather Evidence Yourself
The 5 reasons people give for not gathering evidence themselves “It’s tedious and boring.” “Things will sort themselves out anyway so why bother?” “I can just tell my story when…
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The resources CAFCASS use to assess harmful conflict
If your case involves ‘harmful conflict’, the links in this blog show you exactly how CAFCASS will assess you and your family relationships. FCAs are expected to follow these processes although they do have discretion in how they conduct their assessments.
Domestic abuse: How ONRECORD helps you prove it and how CAFCASS assess it
Use ONRECORD to prove domestic abuse How ONRECORD helps you gather evidence proving domestic abuse and how to understand CAFCASS domestic abuse assessments. Domestic abuse almost invariably occurs in private, so…
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As part of their Child Impact Assessment Framework (CIAF), CAFCASS have guidance on how to assess families and how they work with children where there is parental alienation.
The links in this blog will show you exactly what the Family Court Adviser (FCA) will use to assess or analyse your family and you can see exactly what CAFCASS thinks is useful. FCAs are expected to follow these processes although they do have discretion in how they conduct their assessments.
How do I know if I’m being manipulated?
Manipulation is controlling someone or something to your own advantage, often unfairly or dishonestly. It’s an emotionally unhealthy strategy used by people who are incapable of asking for what they want and need in a direct way. Someone who tries to manipulate you is trying to control you. Manipulative behaviour involves the three key features of fear, obligation and guilt. So, if you feel guilty or under pressure due to a sense of obligation towards someone and fearful of failing them, take heed, it might be that you’re being manipulated.