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Domestic abuse: How ONRECORD helps you prove it and how CAFCASS assess it 

Jill Canvin
Abuse, bully, bullying, CAFCASS, child protection, coercive control, contact, divorce, domestic abuse, Family Court, gaslighting, Litigants in Person, narcissistic, parental alienation, unreasonable behaviour
Use ONRECORD to prove domestic abuse How ONRECORD helps you gather evidence proving domestic abuse and how to understand CAFCASS domestic abuse assessments. Domestic abuse almost invariably occurs in private, so…
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CAFCASS Assessments: Parental Alienation

Jill Canvin
Abuse, Borderline Personality Disorder, CAFCASS, child protection, coercive control, contact, divorce, domestic abuse, false allegations, Family Court, gaslighting, Litigants in Person, narcissistic, parental alienation

As part of their Child Impact Assessment Framework (CIAF), CAFCASS have guidance on how to assess families and how they work with children where there is parental alienation.

The links in this blog will show you exactly what the Family Court Adviser (FCA) will use to assess or analyse your family and you can see exactly what CAFCASS thinks is useful.  FCAs are expected to follow these processes although they do have discretion in how they conduct their assessments.

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How do I know if I’m being manipulated?

Jill Canvin
Abuse, bully, bullying, coercive control, domestic abuse, gaslighting, narcissistic, unreasonable behaviour

Manipulation is controlling someone or something to your own advantage, often unfairly or dishonestly. It’s an emotionally unhealthy strategy used by people who are incapable of asking for what they want and need in a direct way. Someone who tries to manipulate you is trying to control you. Manipulative behaviour involves the three key features of fear, obligation and guilt.  So, if you feel guilty or under pressure due to a sense of obligation towards someone and fearful of failing them, take heed, it might be that you’re being manipulated. 

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